How about, "How come I wasn't invited?"
Worse? What the heck does "I didn't even know what to think, feel or say" really mean? Does it mean this MCC minion can't think, feel, or say (regurgitate?) anything that she hasn't been previously spoon-fed by some "enlightened" advisior? There's good value for the "education" dollar.
You mean people of one race can have differing opinions about how their culture can be viewed?
And heaven help the host if they hadn't been .... they'd be in the sensitivity re-education camp for years to come.