In the interest of not putting anyone really on blast, or specifically identifying myself, I'd like to get some input from those that have navigated this before.
I have one kid playing AAA Spring Hockey and other(s) that would really be interested in it. We've done several camps in the area, traveling for them, even some from former UND players, and have had good experiences at nearly all. We live in an area that doesn't have enough kids to put forth a team on it's own, so we need to travel to do spring hockey, which we're currently doing, and it's our first year of it. I can't say the experience has been good. We went with a program I had a ton of respect for because we've attended other aspects of their offerings, and were quite pleased, but the travel team has been the exact opposite. We're nearly at the end of everything, and there's been zero improvement as a team, nothing but "me" hockey, which is incredibly frustrating as you can see the team is talented, but the coaches seem to be more interested in swapping stories with parents than getting anyone prepared for the game. I feel like most of the problems the team has been facing with the lack of playing as a team could be fixed in the locker room prior to the game.
I guess my main question is, is this worth it? Does AAA help in the long run, or is it more of a money grab? Or is it better just to save our money for a couple camps in the summer and take the kids on a vacation. I'm under no impression that I think any of them will be the next big star. They're talented, but I'm also realistic that advancing to anything outside of high school is something that only a small percentage of players ever do. I just thought that playing in this would give them exposure to some higher end skills and some advanced coaching, but I feel like my kid has actually gotten worse picking up some terrible habits.
Any and all thoughts are appreciated from anyone that's navigated this in the past. I'm not a hockey player myself, nor is my wife, we've been referred to as a 1st Generation Family a few times, and that's pretty fitting.