Sioux-cia, on Jan 16 2007, 08:52 PM, said:
undsportsfan, on Jan 16 2007, 06:54 PM, said:
Yes, its sad that the drop out rate is high on reservations. We're working on it. I can say on my reservation the school enrollment and graduating rate increases yearly. Good for them! And many people do continue to get their GED's. But then, many of these elders in our community still don't speak English. Good for them that they have preserved what's left of the language here. However, its just now becoming customary for children to go to school. I sit and visit with my elders, they were taken out of their homes at young ages to work and make ends meet because their original way of life wasn't allowed, and they suddenly had to pay bills for the current times. Some of these people are only 60 years old. So forgive me and anyone else that sympathizes with lack of American Education standards. However I think many of these people are far more intelligent than people with that posses a doctorate. Infact, one of the more successful men in the TriState area from Indian Country didn't recieve a complete education.
I am not to discuss Affirmative Action here either. Like many things, I don't agree with it, but it had a purpose and reason behind it. And again... lets get back to the issue of the nickname. Not cutting down my people. I don't do it to anyone here... so why is it okay for you to do it? I thought you honor us?

Native Americans are not the only Americans who have had it tough!! I'm not going to go on and on about Mexican Americans and how they were treated in the past and treated today, here and now. I already did that only to get slammed by a Native American who doesn't think anyone else's plight is worthy of recognition. You think RW77's family vacationed through the holocaust? What about the Irish who were conscripted into a war that wasn't their's. What about African Americans? On and on and on..... Yet these American's managed to rise above all the hardships, etc. and succeed in life. Don't expect me to sympathize with your position. I don't but I do offer help out of it. It's here for anyone who wants it.
No, I don't 'honor' you. I honor your ancestors. I don't need to tell
you why.
Sioux-cia- Thanks.

I'm sure my grandparents got to see a lot of the country side while they fled in terror. All they say is "At least I lived! I wish I could say that about my brothers and sisters!" And then she'd go on about how I would have loved my Great Uncle (who'd be about 75 or so now if he were alive).
undsportsfan- You know what? You are right. Every tribe is different. But where you are wrong is where you cling onto your grandparents' injustices. You speak about how wrong it was that they weren't allowed to do certain things and personalize it as your own. That's horrible. My grandparents' family (my extended family) were slaughtered wholesale in very sick ways by the Germans. But I don't go on vendettas to curb German acts and behaviors found around the US (such as Ocktoberfest is held in certain places in the US).
No one said you have to let your culture die. I certainly didn't. Your elders speak the language. GREAT! Who says your youth can't? They may not be able to speak the language in schools or colleges and such, but that's because the people that are not Native American don't speak that language and you need to speak English to succeed in the US. It's HOW IT IS! Please tell me how a Mexican American (no offense Sioux cia) or person from a non-English speaking country can expect to survive and prosper in the US if they can't speak, read, or understand the English language? In the US, I hear it called "home culture" and I believe in "home culture" as just that, your culture at "home." What and where is home? Well, as they say, "Home is where the heart is." My father speaks, reads, and writes fluent English. When he goes home to visit with his parents (my grandparents) do you know how much English is spoken? ZERO. NONE. He speaks Yiddish to his parents (Yiddish, for you folks, is a spoken dialect of German but a written dialect of Hebrew). Do you know how my grandparents were treated when they showed up speaking that language? they were treated like they didn't know English. They figured out RIGHT AWAY that in order to succeed in the US, they had to learn English. They did the best they could and, when my father was old enough, he'd help them learn English. I have a friend who is Vietnamese and his parents speak English, sure, but when he talks to his parents or his parents talk to him, they aren't speaking English, let me assure you.
Do you understand what I'm saying and why I am saying this to you, undsportsfan? You seem to rationalize this nickname as some sort of vendetta further holding your ethnicity back when, in fact, it is your own people that are holding themselves back. No changing of the nickname, no sort of admission on anyone's part outside of your people will change that! My family struggled to survive and they succeeded! Some Native American families struggle to survive and succeed as well. Some of them leave the reservation never to return, which is too bad. Others forget their heritage, which is sad. But what about the rest? The 49% of those who don't graduate high school? The percentages of those that do or get a GED and don't continue their education even though they may qualify for tuition assistance?
What is your people doing to help themselves? And when you asked "Aren't we talking about the nickname" we really are actually. Pro-changers talk about the affliction that the nickname brings on and we counter that there is no proof otherwise. You have yet to show proof! When this is breached, the aspect of social justice pops up and, with that, the "plight" issue. No one says Native Americans don't have it rough. However, they aren't exactly oppressed either. Didn't many schools of higher education install incentive programs for Native American students that help them either make a choice to attend college or help them through it once they are there? Isn't there protection under law in the Equal Opportunity Act and the Civil Rights Amendment?
Your people are holding themselves back. And, it is partially because of socialistic mindsets. Not because they want to help take care of each other. Far from it. It's because they expect EVERYONE to take care of each other, Whites to take care of Native Americans, Whites to take care of African Americans, Whites to take care of everyone, because Whites are percieved to be "rich enough." Why are they percieved that way? Were Americans always so rich? Were pathways always open to us? Nope. We made our own pathways. One such pathway lead us to the very creation of the United States. Help yourselves, that's fine, but the best help you can do for yourself as far as an ethnicity would be to start using the American societal value set to your advantage. Start getting more than just your tribe's Native American's to graduate high school! Match or exceed the Caucasian's graduation rates (based upon total number of students of that ethnicity). You want to be equal to Caucasians, GOOD! But Caucasians can't make you equal to Caucasians. Only Native Americans can. No amount of sympathy or jumping to your every concern will change that. The nickname is merely a front. A small battle that will make you feel good for a little while if you win. But it will not improve anything other than your morale for a little while... until something else comes up and then it is off to advocate for that change.
I could go on and on, but I feel I'm already ranting endlessly as it is.