I gotcha and understand what you are saying. The bullying and actual physically beating up of a mentally handicapped kid who believed MM was his friend is the part I cannot get over. It pains me, I have a deep soft spot for those that have a handicap of no fault of there own. They need help and need to be watched over and most of all, protected. This is a tough one for me. To go to an elite college hockey program is a special privilege and a one-time, 4-year type of thing. Not an "opportunity", IMO. He will have many chances to accept generic opportunities in the future - IMO a UND Hockey scholarship is different. Just my 2 cents.