I agree with you on the Parise part. But I think Toews does deserve to be an all star.
1) Youngest captain in the NHL. His responsibilities include 19 other guys plus his personal production.
2) He's already won 2 games in shootouts, and is 4 of 5 overall in shootouts, leading the NHL in goals.
3) On faceoffs, Toews is #2 (of the top 30) in the NHL on win %. Extra possessions ... easier PP, easier PK.
Now for the superficial fans who only look at goals, they may not vote for him. But I would.