I agree. That's one thing that bothers me whenever the possibility of having a dialogue with the tribes comes up. It's almost always pursued with the idea that there's something we can give or offer the tribes that will enable UND to bestow the intended honor.
I've been fortuate in my life to have several honors bestowed on me. It's never occurred to ask, "That's nice, but what else is in it for me?" The mere fact that someone thought I was worthy of being recognized was enough. I didn't negotiate for the honor, and the mindset that some form of additional payoff is necessary before an honor can be accepted is totally baffling.
The tribes, of course, have every right to reject the honor if they so choose, but they shouldn't expect anyone to grovel and plead to bestow it. Nor should accepting the honor come with conditions and strings attached. Either accept it or don't.
I propose that Gov. Hoeven and other appropriate state and UND officials go to the two Sioux reservations, meet with the tribal councils, explain UND's intention in offering the honor and then say that if the governor doesn't receive an answer within a year, UND will begin the process of changing the name. That will be the end of it. The tribal councils don't have to lift a finger unless they want to, and nobody associated with the state or UND will do any lobbying or negotiating.
EDIT: I also think the delegation that goes to visit the tribal councils needs to be very clear that UND neither condones nor tolerates racism. They could also discuss the plans to make certain that the nickname and logo are used in a dignified and respectful manner.