Although the events I'm about to relate happened hundreds of miles away in my home state of South Dakota, I'm posting here because I know the hockey community is an incredibly close and tight-knit family. There's a hockey mom and a hockey dad -- both high school classmates of mine -- who need our help and support.
On Feb. 5, Jeri Wilcox was driving home to Ft. Pierre, S.D., from a youth hockey game in Rapid City in which her daughter Kristin had participated. Also in the SUV were Jeri's sister Jean Denton and Kristin's friend Kayla Gabriel. According to an eyewitness, the vehicle skidded on some ice, hit a bridge and then rolled several times, landing on its wheels.
Three of the women were injured, but Jeri's injuries were by far the most serious. She suffered broken vertebrae in her neck and back, had a number of other fractures and received severe head lacerations. Kristin and Jean have since been sent home to recover, but Jeri remains in the intensive care unit of Rapid City Regional Hospital, 180 miles from home in Ft. Pierre. She has undergone surgery on her neck and back.
What makes this situation even more tragic is that Tyler Wilcox, the 19-year-old son of Jeri and Bob Wilcox, lost his three-year battle with cancer just before last Thanksgiving. He was a high school athlete and, like his sister, a hockey player. Both had attended hockey camps at UND. Jeri told me that Kristin some day hoped to play for the Sioux women's hockey team.
Two years ago when I asked Brad Berry if UND's players would autograph a Fighting Sioux shirt for Tyler, he went one better and had them sign a hockey stick for him, too. Jeri wrote to let me know how much her son appreciated the gesture and enjoyed the gifts. At that time, he had lost a leg to the cancer, so his hockey career was over.
Today, I received an e-mail from one of my classmates who lives near Rapid City. She had just visited Jeri in the hospital and wrote:
Obviously, the Wilcox family will have substantial medical bills as a result of Tyler's illness and Jeri's accident. My class has set up a fund for them. If you would like to make a contribution, you can mail it to:
Class of '73 Wilcox Fund
Home Federal Savings
322 S. Coteau
Pierre, SD 57501
If you can't contribute but would like to send some words of support and encouragement to Bob and Jeri, you can address an e-mail to Jeri Wilcox through the hospital's Web site here. Anything you can do will be sincerely appreciated.